Exceptional relationship advice for you if you are looking to partner up and the things you need to consider before getting married. Nancy Perpall is a nurse turned attorney turned writer. Nancy spent more than three decades as a divorce attorney and has learned an incredible amount about the power of unions, what makes them and precisely what breaks them. She has profound wisdom for us when it comes to relationships, marriages, breakups and reconciliations.
I had the absolute delight of having a second conversation with Nancy Perpall, an author and relationship expert, about the challenges and dynamics of modern relationships.
Nancy shares her personal journey from being a nurse to becoming an attorney and eventually focusing on helping couples navigate their marriages. She discusses the shift in values and expectations in relationships over the years, emphasizing the importance of open communication and understanding core wounds.
Nancy provides practical guidance for individuals looking for a partner or already in a relationship, highlighting the need for premarital counseling and discussing important topics such as finances and parenting. She also explores the possibility of reconciliation and the importance of self-reflection and personal growth in maintaining a healthy relationship.
Takeaways On Relationships And Tips For Staying Together
- Marriage and relationships have evolved over the years, with a shift from economic arrangements to partnerships built on love and personal fulfillment.
- Open and honest communication is crucial in relationships, and partners should discuss important topics such as finances, parenting, and sexual intimacy before getting married.
- Understanding and addressing core wounds from childhood is essential for personal growth and successful relationships.
- Reconciliation is possible in some cases, but it requires hard work, commitment, and a willingness to change oneself.
- Maintaining a healthy relationship requires ongoing effort, self-reflection, and a focus on personal growth.
To listen in to the conversation –
More from my conversation with Nancy here – This Is How You Partner Up.
To get Nancy’s book – Around Which All Things Bend
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
06:14 Insights from Nancy’s Career
14:31 The Shift in Relationship Values
19:18 Communication Challenges
27:14 Changing Expectations in Marriage
35:01 Practical Guidance for Relationships
42:50 Reconciliation and Second Chances
46:48 Closing Remarks
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